If you care most about your grand kids being able to see your beautiful wedding portraits and maybe you want to print a billboard sized canvas to hang on your wall for the world to see when they come to your home, invest your time and money into making sure you trust and love your photographer.
Your venue. If one of your biggest priorities is being able to relax on your wedding day, your venue and vendor team are so vital. Get a real day of planner, it is worth every penny!
The point is, make sure those top 3 list items are checked off and taken care of, then worry about the rest.